Poor me vampires

Here’s my Friday public service announcement: so, Ive noticed a trend in social media of people who have crap going on in their lives...but sometimes the crap lasts so long ...like years and years, different dramas over different seasons, at some point you have to look at the common denominator of all your drama- it’s you.

Again you’re upset and you’re down, you feel like people aren’t serving you like you want them to. And when they don’t, you publicly insult them and disparage them. Why? Because they’re not serving you. So let me ask you something? How have you been serving them? It’s tiring to be the crutch of a person who has constant problems. And some point, all your human crutches are just that...human. So quit putting so much weight on them.
And maybe try this: not making your self the center of everything...put other people first. Quit blaming other people for your problems. Start blaming yourself. If you’re still blaming your parents and you’re an adult, please stop. You have until age 25, max, to blame your parents for your issues. After that it’s on you. Let your parents enjoy their lives in their old age for the love! It’s time for you to cut the cord and grow up. Honor your mother and father, even if they were shitty parents. Take the high road and honor them by figuring your crap out without blaming them.
You put yourself at the center of the universe and you’re miserable. Why? Cause you’re a shitty god, and you were never worthy of worship. So, remove yourself from the center, and put God back in His rightful place....and you just might discover the secret to joy.
What you’re doing isn’t working if you’re still doing the same thing today that you were 3 years ago...and you’re still miserable. You can get out of this vortex by simply stepping out of it instead of running in the same circle. Take a step right, towards God. He won’t ever get sick of listening to you, the rest of us will. He can actually do something about it, we can’t. He’s the place you should rant to when you’re feeling hopeless, not social media.